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It is in our nature as human beings to strive to be accepted and recognized. But it is also in our socially developed nature that we strive to gain the respect of other people. No person would want to be regarded as unworthy, as of no importance, with no acknowledgment and no respect. But as with the nature of life, respect should be earned. You cannot, just by any random chance, get the respect of other people even if you don’t deserve it. So what does it take to gain respect? The following are.
1. Respect yourself. If you want to be respected, be the first one to respect yourself. You cannot expect other people to see you in a higher light if you, yourself, does not regard yourself as such.
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I called 6 different numbers – and each person told me that despite the inconvenience, for which they were very sorry, they really couldn’t help me – I was calling the wrong number and needed to speak to a different department ‘customer support’. I breathed deeply and made sure I smiled before I thanked them in my nicest Canadian voice full of understanding for the challenges I posed and contrition for my unrealistic expectations but could they please give the correct number to call? And then I bravely dialed, sat on hold for 20 minutes only to discover that not surprisingly, this too was the wrong person. When I finally did reach ‘customer support’ they firmly told me that a year was a year and they wouldn’t fix the computer under warranty. And, yes, they agreed I had had a lot of trouble with the computer. They were very “sorry for the inconvenience.”
I’ll miss that notebook. It was bright red and just the right size. But looks aren’t everything. I ordered a new notebook 3 weeks ago which, I’ve been assured, is on its way from China. It’s a very boring black and very unremarkable. Let’s hope it stays that way.
What is your team doing that makes no sense?
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What ineffective conversations are cluttering communication between people in your organization? Are people talking about the things that matter? Are they having open, honest and robust conversations? When people follow ‘scripts’ they aren’t having the meaningful conversations needed to really understand issues and engage in the dialogue required to find creative solutions or overcome misunderstandings. Scripts aren’t only used in call centers; at times we all revert to formulaic responses either because we don’t care or we fear having the kind of conversations that really matter. Trust is at the heart of a team’s ability to have courageous conversations that “interrogate reality” a description used by Susan Scott in her wonderful book Fierce Conversations. Communication is how teams learn. Do your teams have the communication skills needed to learn from each other?
3. Improve your inner circle – If you want to know a little more about yourself, look at the people who you choose to have around you. We tend to attract those people who are most like us, so look at your inner circle of friends and colleagues. Are they positive? Do they challenge you to be more than you are? Are they living the kind of life you would like to live? If not, consider expanding your circle to include people who are where you want to be in your career and in your personal life and ask them to mentor you on your journey. Learn from their wisdom and experience.
What unnecessary oversight is limiting the creativity and innovation in your group? When we don’t trust others we compensate by adding additional reviews and sign-offs. Similarly, managers are overfunctioning for their staff when they get involved in every meeting or deliberation. The effect of these behaviors is to shut down creativity and commitment. The best managers know how to help others think rather than telling them how to think. They substitute open-ended questions for oversight and in the process stimulate innovation and engagement. And above all they help others to see the learning present in every situation you can be published without charge. You can to republish this article in your website or blog. Please provide links Active.
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