Goal Setting

Posted by admin | Posted in Articles, Main Content | Posted on 16-02-2009

771470_achieve_1 You may have heard so much about goal setting and how important it is to actually define what you want to achieve in life. Analysts say that without having clearly defined goals, the chances of personal fulfillment are pretty reduced. But what we seem to lack is an understanding or knowledge concerning how to set goals. Following, there are some tips meant to make goal setting easier and less problematic for those of you that are beginners in the field.

It is highly important that you have a positive attitude at the moment when you start analyzing yourself and think about what you may want to achieve. In the absence of a good psychological perspective, prospects have the tendency to become gloomy. Music or whatever else that will put you into a good mood may work. Next, move the analysis to the life sectors that require changes. The brainstorming session should culminate with one in which you group these goals into personal and career ones in order to delineate them more precisely.

The following step of goal setting consists of giving a time frame for the individual goals on the list. Beware the fact that some incorrect time frames lead to the appearance of unrealistic goals. If you allow too little time for achieving something that should take longer, then all you will actually achieve is a feeling of failure and frustration. Therefore, a healthy judgment and a firm sense of reality remain essential for goal setting.

Another aspect of goal setting is making order in your notes. Once you have determined some goals in a brainstorming sessions, put them down in a certain order after identifying them on the paper. The reformulation has to be highly motivational and positive too. Use vocabulary phrases that express likes, wishes and preferences so that the motivational aspect will always be there when you read your notes. Identifying priorities will also come with the organizational aspect. People with too many goals should separate them according to various criteria. Decide which of the objectives on that list are short-term or long-term ones, and which are more or less important from the aspects of both personal life and career.

Finally, an important issue of goal setting consists of making plans for each of the goals you want to meet. The step-by-step plan will always take you through processes gradually and will help you eliminate unimportant or distracting aspects. That being done, do not overlook to review and reevaluate goals from time to time. Especially with long-term plans and goals, it is a good idea every now and then to analyze the items on the list, reevaluate your resources and check whether goals have remained realistic and in accordance with personal and professional expectations.

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Success Through Goal Setting, Part 1 of 3 | Brian Tracy’s Blog – The ability to set goals and make plans for their accomplishment is the master skill of success.It is the single most important skill that you can learn and.

Success Through Goal Setting, Part 2 of 3 | Brian Tracy’s Blog – Continuing from last time…The primary reason why you fear failure is simply this: You probably do not understand the role that failure plays in achievement.

Success Through Goal Setting, Part 3 of 3 | Brian Tracy’s Blog – Moving on to the next letter in GOALS…The second letter, O, stands for opportunity. Successful people do not wait for opportunities to turn their goals into

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Kitchen Chair Cushions

Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 08-02-2010

It is quite annoying when people are not taking their meals in the kitchen for the simple reason that the chairs are not comfortable to sit on. If you buy some good quality cushions then this can be a thing of the past.

What is the point of having kitchen chairs that no one hardly ever sits on because they are just not comfortable at all? Besides looking for kitchen chair cushions that are comfortable you can look for ones that will improve on the aesthetic qualities of your house. Purchasing quality kitchen chair cushions is just one of the ways in which you can remodel and decorate your kitchen too. Think about it meal time should be one way that you and your family get to spend some time together and this is one step in doing just that.

You can take your pick from anyone of these good quality cushions: chair cushions, black kitchen cushions, indoor seat cushions

When it come to purchasing cushions you should always research on the durability, strength and quality among other things. Top of the list would be the type of material that the cushions are manufactured with. You should also find out how they handle stains and if they’ve been treated with strain resistant dye. This prevents the color from running when you wash or clean them.

If you want the cushions to have long cushion life before you have to replace them then consider buying a very strong fabric. I would recommend that you find kitchen chair cushions with removable covers. It is always easier to look after and care for removable covers. Consider the rest of the furniture that you have in the kitchen when you are choosing.

It is always best to go with something that complements the trend or style that is there already in your home. Buying the correct size of cushions will definitely minimize on the stress and dissapointments. You will be able to get quality affordable kitchen chair kitchen chair cushions from various places. Save yourself time and look around the internet without having to go between different furniture shops.

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Coaching – What To Do? Life’s Big Question

Posted by admin | Posted in Coaching | Posted on 08-02-2010

You’re at the crossroads again. You’ve made mistakes and now it is harder to choose. Fear has you in it’s grip, you don’t know which choice is best. Well, come and trust who you are and come back to your origins to discover your ability to choose powerfully.

We’ve all experienced the same thing at important crossroads in our life when big changes were underway. Often, we find ourselves feeling panic and frozen in time, possibly with indecision, waiting and wondering: Which way to go?;  How will things turn out? Sometimes, you just don’t know what to do.

I’m asked frequently about this topic and oddly, I have a lot of experience with it as well. In fact, I find my life in this state of flux often as more changes loom on the horizon. Everyone, myself included, wants answers. What should I do? How do I know? These answers are never forthcoming; we cannot see into the future. Every direction can be okay; one can be the best. The simple truth is, we just don’t know with 100% accuracy. This is where awareness and faith come in to play.

Awareness is important on many levels. Knowing the landscape of your life, you can make calculated decisions that support your goals. In business, and daily life activities, we implement this process automatically without much awareness at all, it has become so habitual. This, in part, is where a problem lies. Habitual behavior may not be appropriate as new data becomes available. Auto-pilot means your flying blind. Even when flying a plane on auto-pilot, the pilot will check the instrument panels to ensure the data is consistent. Why don’t we? Be aware of your data.

Your data comes from many sources and most of us are familiar with these sources. I might surprise some of you with new concepts. The common source that we’re all familiar with is the mind and store-house of knowledge and experience we have gained from life. Again, those who rely solely upon this source risk repeating the same mistakes over and over again. The mystery of life dictates that our ability to identify with life experience as truth results in creating more of this truth in our lives. If this truth is a truth of painful experience, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Utilizing other sources, we are able to objectively assess all sources and come to new conclusions.

The next common source is our emotions and intuition; they often are synonomous. A surprising fact here is that not everyone is in touch with their emotions or permit the emotions the freedom they deserve. Emotions are very useful in interpreting and/or being aware of underlying factors that may not be evident through hard tangible data. For some this is a gut-feeling, others have a flash of insight or conclusion, and others feel twinges in certain parts of the body without being aware of any potential significance. I have scenarios for each and will refrain from elaborating further for the sake of brevity today. Be curious to explore it further though.

A less common source for most is our spiritual awareness. This is a quiet place within that has a higher level of wisdom for the greater good. This can be pertinent to you, your life, your family life, community, work, the world, and so on. The levels of knowledge accessible here are limitless. It is as though we are connected to a universal storehouse of knowledge. This place of knowing is far less judgemental and emotional but has the ability to synthesize the data from the mind and emotions, integrating and offering solutions from a much higher level of consciousness. This is something that many people find themselves seeking as they mature and look for more significance in their lives and meaning in their work.

Finally, we must talk about the role of faith. This is part of what I teach and coach in my profession. It is the co-creative relationship and process that we have as human-beings with the source of all creation. This isn’t religious, it isn’t specific to any religion, yet it doesn’t contradict any religion. This is born from my own quest for truth integrated with my own life and spiritual experiences. It may be incomplete and is a direction to follow, not a destination for you to reach. Such is the nature of our spiritual life; it is the journey and the ever-changing, ever-increasing level of knowledge and wisdom that we gain through life experience. With an open-mind, entertain our relationship with the source of all creation.

Creation exists, as do we. We see it all around us. Scientists study deeper into the stars. More scientists study deeper into the mysterys of time and space; quantum physics. What is witnessed is creation, its’ magic and its’ mystery. Down at the quantum level we discover that we’re mostly made up of empty space and other unusual phenomena that cannot be explained. Out in the stars, they see an expanding universe. Now, going deeper, with probing satellites and quantum sciences, new theories arise. All seem to point to an apex of creation coming from nothing… a God Force.

Mystery is lived by people accessing this God-Force, understanding their co-creative relationship to this mystery. Understanding that this force is abundant love, it supplies us with what is in our intention. What we intend for our lives becomes real. Many people who do this consistently refer to it as manifesting. As children, many of us have had at least one solid experience of this. We may have just known that we would have something in our lives, whether a gift, an experience, a trip, whatever, and then it happens. There was no fear, doubt, uncertainty, only gladness for what was to come. That is the power of intent.

As adults, so much of our lives have instructed us to ignore so much. Don’t dream to big. You can’t do this. Don’t do that. That’s only for the privileged. You need to have a degree. There is too much competition. This is the way things work. Everywhere you turn, you are told how it is and what cannot be and you become conditioned. We have spent too little time in practice with our spiritual origins that we do not understand this mystery and in our need for control, we stifle its’ requirement for room to breathe and work its’ own magic. We measure things by worldly standards and time clocks, not realizing that in the bigger picture, some of those so-called failures actually were important stepping-stones in a grander scheme for our lives. Is our spiritual side still influencing the outcome? Are we making the experience harder, longer, or are we co-operating and making it easier?

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How Can I Help My Children Set Targets And Goals For Themselves ?

Posted by admin | Posted in Main Content | Posted on 08-02-2010

My children and I were setting goals to achieve in this new year. I ended up saying how they wanted to try “keeping a diary” etc. My children are 11yrs and 8yrs. How do I encourage them to set a goal without forcing or being to “mummy” about it.?

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Reduce Your Stress: Your Children Are Waiting!

Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 07-02-2010

Mothers are expected to possess huge hearts, massive shoulders, a minimum of three hands, all the answers and the list goes on! What several mothers forget is they’re not born with super hero powers to handle all of those things at once.

Mom=Stress. It’s a fact of life. Reducing stress is of the utmost importance to everyone, however especially mothers.

You recognize stress can cause depression, heart disease, and an unhealthy mom. Did you furthermore may apprehend your stress, if not handled correctly, can have a negative impact on your youngsters too?

The most necessary things in an exceedingly mother’s life, her youngsters, are also the foremost influential. Children are sponges and everything Mom will they can, at some point in time in their lives, mimic. If youngsters see their mother constantly stressed, they can be more inclined to follow those patterns.  What you are doing today can determine the type of life your kid will lead tomorrow, together with how you create it a point to reduce stressful situations.

Mothers tend to overload themselves, that in flip overloads their children. Adults move at a a lot of faster pace and their bodies are a lot of adept to handle the speed of life. Youngsters, on the opposite hand, are not able to function this way, that will cause developmental and behavior problems in the long run if constantly pushed to stay up with an adult’s quicker pace.

Studies have shown a mother who is beneath excessive amounts of stress will hand out harsher punishments than one who is not. Prolonged stress will cause a mother to get to the purpose that she feels overwhelmed and can not stop to assume before handing down discipline. This sort of behavior teaches kids it is ok to let your mood management your life as a parent

Kids would like to feel a way of security and grasp that their mom is there to help them work through and perceive the stressful times in their lives. If children aren’t taught what stress is and why it’s a half of their lives, they will never find out how to cut back it, so leading them down a path of unhappiness and unhealthy choices. Offer them the tools early about how to accommodate stress and more importantly, how to scale back the quantity of stress that happens in their lives.

There is nobody who lives a wholly stress free life. After all, you shouldn’t wish your children to have a life with fully no stress. The day can return {that a} stressful state of affairs occurs and they can haven’t any idea how to cope with it, that is cause for an extraordinarily negative outcome.

As a mother you want to show your kids that stress does not have to manage your life. Mother’s tend to try and do it all; even after they understand they are not capable. STOP! Make a point, every day, to cut back your stress levels. Eliminating simply one stressful scenario can create a world of distinction within the way you are feeling and how your kids handle stress as adults.

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Law Of Attraction – To Focus Or Not To Focus

Posted by admin | Posted in Attraction | Posted on 03-02-2010

Being able to focus, but not over-focus whereby you are causing resistance to allowing the Law of Attraction to deliver.

Often I receive emails from people who have been learning about and applying the Law of Attraction yet they feel stuck. They are clear about what they want. They stay focused on their desire and yet, it seems to be so slow in coming or out of reach entirely.

Here’s an example of one such email: “I have been trying to attract a good mate into my life and have really focused on it for the past three months. I have posted positive affirmations on my bathroom mirror with positive quotes like ‘I am married now to a wonderful person’ etc…. I also read every morning and mid-day and night a positive affirmation that I am attracting a great mate who harmonizes with me. I also bought an endless loop cassette tape and recorded that I have a good spouse and that I have attracted a good person to myself etc and I listen to it every night. I really believe that it will come to me, but …”

Could it be that this person is focusing too much? Surely all these affirmations and positive statements should have produced the desired outcome by now! Yes, this person is probably focusing too much on their desire and actually causing resistance to allowing the Law of Attraction to deliver. Here are three things about how the Law of Attraction works to consider:

Once you have clarity about your desire and feel satisfied with the mental picture and good feelings you have, then the Law of Attraction reads you loud and clear and the process of delivery is set in motion.

If you do nothing more than get crystal clear, you will receive your desire in the easiest most efficient way.

The Law of Attraction doesn’t really listen to your words, but DOES read how you actually feel about this desire. When you make affirmations that are not true, like: “I have a wonderful spouse”–when you don’t, the Law of Attraction only receives your opposite vibration of “I don’t have a spouse.” The more affirmations you make, the more you are nullifying your desire with this opposing vibration.

So, what ARE you supposed to do with that desire you’ve been so clear about?

Hold it in your periphery vision, rather than your focal point.

Here’s an exercise that will demonstrate how to do that:

Keep your focus on this article on the screen of your computer. Now, tell me, what do you see on your far right? Don’t move your eyes, just notice what is there.

OK, now tell me, what is in the upper left field? What’s in the lower left field? What is at the top of your field of vision? And the bottom?

You DO know what is there without focusing on the object directly.

Now, let’s pretend that one of the items in your periphery is a lamp and you want to turn it on. You move your eyes, so that the lamp is the focus of your vision, BRIEFLY, while you turn it on–then return your focus to this screen.

This is the best way to hold your clear desires: once you have clearly stated or written your desire, hold it in the periphery of your vision. Get on with other things that you enjoy. You’ll know when to shift your focus to your desire–maybe you’ve changed your mind about a detail–or you just enjoy imagining what it feels like to be living your desire.

I have a practice of writing out my desire statement using the 3-Phrases that raise my vibration, then I put it away in a file-folder. The file folder is in my left peripheral vision when I’m at my computer.. I usually seem to ‘forget about it’ until it is fulfilled. Then I go digging for that particular Desire Statement and find, to my absolute delight, that EVERYTHING I asked for has come true!

The bottom line is really this: If focusing on your desire feels good, delightful, playful and exciting, then by all means, enjoy giving it attention. But if you are forcing yourself to focus–you are actually causing resistance that can cause delay. If you’ve been noticing the length of time it is taking for your desire to come–you are slowing down the process.

“Allowing” means staying out the the way, while you allow the Law of Attraction to deliver your desire.

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Magic Happens with Reiki Charged Herbal Pillar Candles. Each of our Herbal Magic Pillars have been designed with a specific intention using a unique blend of essential oils. Use to attract positive energy into your life. May this pure and positive force guide you through every thought and action. Use in combination with Good Health candle to correct nerve or muscular problems. Scents include Frank...
Chakra Gemstone Sterling Silver Chain Necklace Chakra Gemstone Sterling Silver Chain Necklace
$16.95

Stimulate the balancing of your chakras by using our Heart Projects ChakraMid Necklace. There are seven major Chakras (energy centers) in our bodies and each gemstone bead in this necklace corresponds with one of the Chakras as noted below: (1st) Red Jasper, (2nd) Carnelian, (3rd) Calcite, (4th) Green Aventurine,(5th) Amazonite, (6th) Sodalite (7th) Amethyst. This necklace is made of Sterling Silv...
Let Loose! The Law of Attraction In Action, Episode X Let Loose! The Law of Attraction In Action, Episode X
$10.44

You are as free as you allow yourself to be by virtue of the thoughts you think. In episode ten of this wildly popular series, Abraham continues to astonish, elucidate and entertain! Topics include: fate, fortune-telling, learning to just enjoy life, the blissful energy of meditation, teaching tough kids, lawsuits, pets, workplace freedom, and Why dont the Hicks charge less money so more pe...
Journey Into Meditation: Guided Meditations for Healing, Insight & Manifestation Journey Into Meditation: Guided Meditations for Healing, Insight & Manifestation
$14.99

In Journey into Meditation, Lisa Guyman guides you into a chakra healing meditation, a meditation for accessing your intuition, and a meditation for manifesting. Her soothing voice is backed by the tranquil musical compositions of Rob Wallace creating the perfect combination for deep meditation. This CD contains three guided meditations: Mystic Waterfall: a meditation for chakra healing. C...

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